Hi Everyone,
I started to gather information for this blog way back in early September of 2015. I know this because one man I surveyed had such a great reply, that I put it in the memo section of my cell (phone) right in front of him. It was the best. This is what I mean.
On August 25, 2015 I posted a blog called, L.O.V.E. (Here’s the link, L.O.V.E.) It was about that time when I started to think about this blog. But as we all (should) know, life has a way of getting in the way of the things we want to do. For me, it was writing this blog. (I mentioned this in yesterday’s blog.) Anyway,…
This is what my inquiring mind discovered after asking 11 men what they thought of women who willingly participate in L.O.V.E., aka Legs Open Very Easily. Since the answers were virtually the same from men ages 18-55, I have decided not to expand my sample size. I mean why waste time, when apparently no one has enough of it, right? ;D
Okay so I pretty much knew the answer to all the questions I was going to ask, and really, how many questions could be asked about females who chose to willingly participate in L.O.V.E. aka Legs Open Very Easily.
Q#1) “Would you respect a female if she had sex with you on the first date?”
A#1) 10 out of 11 men said, “No.” The only man who said yes was barely 18. Since I could be his mother, I think his manners and probably a fear of authority kicked in. Just saying. J
Q#2) “Would you (ever) consider the female you had sex on the first date with to be dateable material? You know, like make her your girlfriend?”
A#2) 9 out of 11 men said, “No.” The 18 year old and one other who about the same age as him said yes.
Q3#) “Would you have sex with them again?”
A#3) At first all men said, “Yes.” Then after a short pause, 6 out of the 11 said, “Not always. It depends. Some chicks/women get all needy/clingy/messed-up. You know.” And I did. As hard as it is to believe, I have, at least once, experienced ALL sides of L.O.V.E. The side I had experienced the most is when some females (sic) like to put “claims” on the men/males that they have had sex with. In my 40 plus years of experience, I’ve seen some females, (sic) back stab and out-and-out sabotage women, including myself. Some females (sic) are so messed-up that you would swear, that they would claim the air we breathe when they are on the other side of the room! I could get into some of the reasons for that, but life is short and well, really who am I to parent someone else’s offspring. I’ve already done my part.
Anyway….
For part of 2014, I had this job that had these bizarre hours which meant that I would get home at about 5:45am. One morning as I was finishing my cigarette on the porch, the man who lived downstairs saw me. After some small talk he asked me with a smile as he moved closer, “Would you like a massage?” Smiling, I said, “It’s like, 5:45 am. And no. But thanks, though.” He is a good looking man, who had a bit more than a little vodka on his breath. (Before I was a cocktail waitress, I did a bit of bartending at a sports bar. I was also a server and I used to sell fragrance. Differentiating and matching scents increased, helped with my sales, so I know it was vodka. Anyway…) We talked some more before he went to wherever he was going before he saw me. Let’s say a week or slightly longer passed before he saw and asked me again. Again, I said, “No,” with a smile. He asked me at least three times. Perhaps he thought I was in need of some, “attention”. He knew I wasn’t seeing anyone.
If you are thinking, “So?” keep reading.
Old houses have pretty thin walls, and floors. That means that if I sat in the kitchen I could hear everything if he was in a certain room. Like everything. If he was having sex, or giving a female/woman an orgasm, I heard it. This went on the whole time I lived there so I heard it a lot before and after he asked me if I wanted a massage. In fact, some of the females/women were, let’s say, really enjoying themselves.
Personally, it didn’t bother me. If I was eating, I would finish my meal thinking, “Ooooohhhh, yes, I remember sounding like that when my Ex would________. I wonder if he is doing that to her?” I am telling you this because instead of wanting, being tempted to go downstairs, because he was right there, and the sounds coming from the basement were very familiar, I didn’t. Does anyone know how easy it would have been for me to walk down the back stairs to his apartment without anyone seeing me? If anyone doesn’t know, it would have been pretty easy, but I didn’t. Not once. He didn’t even have my cell number. If I had to call him, because he didn’t get the note I taped to his door, I blocked my number. Again, he was a good looking man, who worked out, dressed well and was right there.
You know I “get it” people have needs. Sometimes people’s Legs Open Very Easily because they need to get under someone to get over someone else. That normally backfires because they usually end up going back to the person they were trying to get over before they got under someone else. When everyone understands the situation, what they are getting themselves into, they (should) sit back and think, “It is what it is,” or, “It was what it was,” and everyone is, at the very least civil. But not everyone does. For some reason some people, mostly females (sic) get these unreasonable thoughts in their heads and decide to complicate the simple. You know, by putting claims on someone and then making other claims, like claiming all sorts of things about the woman they are jealous of, like her stealing the air they breathe.
If I need someone, I speak to one of two people, one being my ex. We talk about a lot of things but sex which was better than GREAT, when we were together. (I blogged about that years ago. That blog is titled, “It’s Called GREAT Sex!”
The point of this blog is, if you have lust, for someone, which is completely different than love, everyone “gets it.” We have all been there, but not everyone acts on it. And really, if all of society did, people would be having sex in the street in every time zone and every second of the day. Have some self-respect and show some restraint. If lust dictates and you “must” have that person, don’t put any claims on them. If they wanted to be with you, they would be. It’s never good to complicate the simple.
Before I forget, the man I mentioned above said, “Hanging around women like that means you’re hanging around the wrong side of town. And that you’re looking for it, you know, some.”
Thank you for reading, A. Rebel’s Rant! ;D
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